How to write a love letter

BY CAROLINE CRAIN

News Editor

As the season of love falls upon us, a thoughtful way to show your appreciation is by writing a letter to your special someone. After all, sometimes sincere words can mean more than material gifts.

Although most of our readers are part of the Tarleton State University community and, in theory, know how to write research papers and scholarly essays are typically a bit different in style from a message from the heart.

If you’re wondering how to get started, here’s a step-by-step guide to help you pen that perfect love letter.

Step 1: The salutation

Every letter begins with a salutation.

For a love letter, it’s pretty safe to start with “Dear (name),” or, if you prefer something more intimate, “Dear (pet name/term of endearment).” If you’re writing to a spouse, partner or significant other, you might use “My love,” “My dearest” or something playful that fits your relationship.

Step 2: The introduction

Start your love letter by diving straight into your feelings. Since it’s Valentine’s season, you could open with something sweet like, “I’ve been thinking about you a lot lately…” or “Happy Valentine’s Day – here’s why you mean so much to me.”

This sets the tone for a personal and emotional message right from the start. Let your partner know why you’re writing and what they mean to you.

Step 3: Express your feelings

The heart of the letter begins here. Go beyond general compliments and focus on specific things you love about the person. Consider including sentiments like a favorite memory, a personal quality you admire, how they make you feel or your hopes for the future.

Step 4: Add a personal touch

To make your letter more special, consider adding an inside joke that only the two of you understand, a short quote or song lyric that reminds you of them or a simple promise, such as “I’ll always be here for you.”

These small details can make your letter feel more unique and sincere.

Step 5: The signoff

When you’re ready to end your love letter, don’t forget to sign off.

The classic “Love, (your name/pet name/etc.)” is simple but timeless. If you want to make it a bit more personal, try “Yours truly,” “Forever yours” or even something creative that feels right for you. The possibilities are truly endless.

Now let’s put it all together. Here is an example letter:

Dear Mom, (Step 1: The salutation)

Happy Valentine’s Day! I’ve been thinking about how much you mean to me, and I wanted to take a moment to tell you. (Step 2: The introduction)

You’ve always been there for me, and I’m so grateful for your love and care. I still remember how you helped me study for every little quiz when I was younger. Now, with only a little bit of college left, I know I wouldn’t be here without you. (Step 3: Express your feelings)

The little things you do, like calling to check in on me or sending pictures of everything that happens at home, mean the world. You’re the kindest, strongest person I know, and I’m lucky to be your child. Thank you for everything you do. (Step 4: Add a personal touch)

With much love,

Caroline (Step 5: The signoff)